"...to be or not to be, that is the question..." are famous words written by William Shakespear over 400 hundred years ago. Today it has become one of the most famous lines in American cinema in the movies "Hamlet" from which it came, and "To Be or Not to Be" the Mel Brooks film.
However, I digress. Forgive me please.
Not every M/s or D/s couple plays every night of the week. Some set out one night a week, a month, or even every couple months to play. Some submissives are taken aback by this, especially novices. Many go into this type relationship with the thought that it will be "play" every day (or night) whichever fits into the schedule.
Some M/s and D/s couples find that playing a board game, or even doing simple things like making supper, working in a garden, or simply taking a walk is "play time" for it gives both the D/M and s/s time to "gather the facts" so to speak about one another. I know that while my Master and I do not play on a regular basis anymore due to the fact that he is a full time college student & part time employee. So we make the best use of our time by just being with one another.
NEVER make the mistake of thinking "something" is wrong, when all it could be is something very simple as having something on His/Her mind that is weighing heavy. If something is wrong they will let you know.
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