Food for Thought...

• To the many D/M's out there who think that the M/s or D/s lifestyle is all about them, it is not. 
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• Both type relationships are the deepest, most meaningful relationship that two can have; however on day one it begins as a friendship something more vanilla than kinky. 
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• It begins with open communication that means You both have to leave no stone unturned with one another. Do NOT expect Your prospective s/s to lay her life out there for You to pick on like a vulture, while You remain silent. Remember You too have a past, he/she has a right to open the door to Your past as You have asked him/her to do. 
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• Expect politeness, protocol is for when two have decided upon a collar, whatever size, shape, color it may be.
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• If You expect You prospective s/s to send You emails, pictures thoughts, please expect to do the very same for Your prospective s/s. It is only fair. 
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• Do NOT expect Your s/s to wear their heart on their sleeve if You keep finding fault with what he/she says or feels. Repeated tearing & shredding of body parts causes scar tissue which is hard & ugly. 
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• If You DO NOT understand what Your s/s has told You, be man or woman enough to ask them to explain. As one of Your many teachers/professors have stated before, "There is no such thing as a dumb question".
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• Lastly, treat Your prospective s/s like You want to be treated, with respect.