If you have not heard it said before, the BRAIN is the largest sex organ in the body. If you feed it, the pleasure is more intense than the best orgasm you have ever had in your life. Becoming more and more popular these days in most of the major bookstores, Barnes & Noble, Borders, Amazon is erotica. Not the Penthouse, Playboy, Maxim,(which are all well and good for the home library) type writing. I am talking full length, wonderful novels that make your imagination travel to places you might not have thought about.
We all know that words can hurt. In everyday life if someone were to call me a "slut", "whore," "bitch," I truly would be picking a fight with them. However, when my Master calls me any name in the throws of passion it takes on a whole new connotation and can make my pleasure that much more. Letting your D/M or s/s know you are into word play can make the difference between a fight of epic proportions or a night of undreamed heights. It is up to the D/s couple to make this happen.
Now you are asking yourself, how can a woman who was verbally abused get turned on by being called a whore, slut, bitch. I know the difference in who is saying those words to me. The man who abused me will never speak an ill word towards me ever again, the reason, I have made it clear to him I am none of the things he called me, and I am worthy of a man's love, devotion, and collar. The man who says those words to me while making me orgasm over and over again is fueling my fantasy.
Try the following experiment with your partner. Find a book that appeals to you, ask your partner to tie you down gently, there is no need for harsh restraints, blindfold you, and begin to read to you from the book. This is a "No Touching" lesson for both of you until your partner finds he or she is ready to touch you or allow your to orgasm. Let your mind take you to where the words are, if I do not miss my guess, after a while your body will be ready to orgasm, not by being touched, but by allowing your brain to fuel your passion.
Words can hurt, however words can fuel a firestorm between two people.
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