BDSM is a lifestyle that has gotten a bad rap through Hollywood (though i will say that the CBS show CSI truly researched the role of "Lady Heather" before doing anything with it), or those who think it is about tying your partner down & beating them up before sex. Sex makes up about 20% of this lifestyle. this lifestyle when both parties are in tune with one another is the DEEPEST, MOST MEANINGFUL, relationships two people can be in.
some of the tenants of BDSM: TRUST, HONESTY, SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL, LOVE.
think about it, would you enter into a relationship without any of the things listed above? i wouldn't. every relationship has one dominant partner and one submissive partner. it is human nature, it doesn't matter which one is dominant, or submissive. very few D/s couples argue, fight, or go to sleep angry with one another, rarely do they divorce. most D/s couples believe in fidelity, even if they are involved in a poly amorous relationship (one Dominant/Master-Domme/Mistress with more than one submissive/slave).
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