when beginning a new relationship with a D/M there is plenty of time to talk things through. if you are unsure how to approach any subject, ask to talk "openly" with Him or Her, without fear of reprisals or punishment for things you will discuss.
everyone has limits, i still have not met a "no limits" slave. it seems there are plenty of D/M's who want this but do not realize unless a woman or man is a "doormat" they have limits as to what they will do, wont do, and participate in. some of the most common are: NO kids, animals, scat, blood, breath, fire, knives.
while i am not new to this lifestyle, i just recently began speaking with a D/M. there are many things He and i agree upon, and others W/we have discussed at length, however there is one thing W/we both agree on that W/we are monogamous. He does not share, i have no wish to be shared (yes, was part of a poly relationship it did not end well, however i am still friends with my former Master). W/we also agree that there are times when it is okay to "agree to disagree".
a D/M's wants should never ever become more important that your own. the most important wants should be mutually agreed upon before you ever accept a collar.
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